Family Mediation Service
Professional family mediation services in Estonia, designed to support parents and couples in finding practical, respectful and lasting solutions during separation, divorce or other times of change.
What Is Family Mediation and Who Is It For?
Family mediation is a structured, confidential process that helps families resolve conflicts without going to court. Guided by a neutral third party – the family mediator it creates a safe space for honest conversations and practical problem-solving, especially during times of change or tension.
Mediation is particularly valuable during separation or divorce, when important decisions need to be made about:
- Child custody and living arrangements
- Parenting time or visitation schedules
- Child maintenance or support payments
- Division of joint assets and property
A family mediator is not a therapist and doesn’t take sides or make decisions for you. Their role is to guide constructive, focused discussions that lead to clear, workable agreements – all tailored to the unique needs of your family.
Whether you’re just beginning to separate or already facing legal proceedings, mediation offers a more peaceful, cost-effective way to move forward.
Why Choose Family Mediation?
Family mediation is a peaceful, respectful and practical alternative to going to court. It helps families navigate separation, divorce and other conflicts by finding realistic solutions that work for everyone involved. The process encourages clear communication, reduces stress and avoids long legal battles, making it easier to move forward with confidence. When children are part of the picture, mediation becomes even more valuable, creating a calm and private space where parents can focus on what truly matters, such as the wellbeing and stability of their children. By promoting cooperation and mutual understanding, family mediation helps preserve important relationships and resolve disputes in a way that feels fair, balanced and focused on the future.
Cost-effective and time-saving
Mediation is significantly more affordable and faster than going through lengthy legal proceedings. You can avoid high legal fees and months of uncertainty by working through your issues in a structured and supportive environment.
Confidential and private
Everything discussed during family mediation sessions remains strictly between the participants. This creates a safe space for open communication, without the stress of public hearings or legal exposure.
Supportive and flexible process
Unlike court, mediation allows you to maintain control over the decisions being made. The process is adapted to suit your family’s needs, schedules and personal situation. You are not forced into positions – instead, you are supported in reaching mutual understanding.
My Qualifications
My name is Sofja Pevzner and I am a certified family mediator with a strong legal background in family law. For more than ten years, I have been supporting families in Estonia through some of life’s most challenging moments, including separation, divorce, parenting disagreements and child custody issues.
Mediation is not only about finding solutions, it is about creating a respectful space where both sides feel heard. I guide each conversation with care and clarity, helping you work through the issues and reach agreements that are practical and fair.
I speak Estonian, Russian and English, so we can work in the language that feels most comfortable for you.
If you are looking for a calmer and more constructive way to resolve family matters, I am here to help.
Private Family Mediation or State Service – Which One to Choose?
In Estonia, families can choose between working with a private family mediator or using mediation services provided by the Ministry of Social Affairs. Both options are designed to support families during separation or other challenging times, but there are clear differences in how each service works.
Private mediation offers faster access, greater flexibility and personal guidance from an experienced legal professional. State services can be useful for more basic issues involving children, but they often involve longer waiting times and a more structured approach. The comparison below can help you decide which service is better suited to your family’s needs.
| Private Mediator (Me) | State Service (Ministry of Social Affairs) | |
|---|---|---|
| Waiting time | Fast appointment scheduling | Often long waiting lists |
| Number of sessions | Unlimited | Up to 5 free sessions per year |
| Legal expertise | Yes, experienced family law professional | Mainly psychological support, limited legal knowledge |
| Scope | Children, property, support, visitation and more | Primarily child-related issues |
| Agreement drafting | Yes, legally sound agreements | Usually not included |
| Flexibility | Fully personalised approach | Less flexible |
| Confidentiality | Completely private | Also confidential, but more structured process |
Working Together for Clear and Lasting Results
Family mediation is more than just resolving a disagreement. It is a thoughtful and structured process that helps you find real solutions and build a stronger foundation for the future. Whether you are facing separation, divorce or a disagreement over parenting or property, mediation creates space for clarity, understanding and respectful decision making.
Instead of focusing on the past or assigning blame, we look ahead. I guide you through every step of the process with calm, focus and professional care, so you feel supported and in control. Together, we work to reach agreements that are practical, fair and truly suited to your family’s needs.
Initial Consultation
(30 min)
Mapping the need and possibilities for mediation
Free
Mediation Session
(1.5 hours)
90€
Agreement Drafting
from €70
Mediation Package Session
Suitable for ongoing negotiations
260€
Ready to Take the Next Step?
If you are looking for a calmer, more respectful way to resolve family matters, I am here to support you. Whether you have questions about the mediation process or are ready to schedule your first session, feel free to reach out.
Simply fill in the contact form below or get in touch by phone or email. I will respond as soon as possible to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.